Adulting Sucks!

The last few days, ok, maybe weeks... I've been getting less patient and more annoyed with just about everything. I hate Adulting!

So while I understand that this is my form of ranting and complaining... I can still complain about others complaining, right?

I have a friend who has been out of work for several months, they didn't try to look for work until unemployment dried up, and now can't find anything months after that. They are always complaining about not having $$ to do anything and needing a job, but not really doing anything to get one. When they do go to interviews, they never follow up. This person lives with their family, so is able to skip paying rent and the family helps by paying this persons necessary bills. THEN to top it all off, this person is always telling me about going to some cool show, movies, etc. Seriously, just start Adulting! We all have to do it sometime!

To the neighbors upstairs who still suck, seriously, your kids have to be under 12 years old, quit blaming all of the noise on them at 1am and 2am. If it is them, why the hell aren't they in bed after midnight on a school night? Idiots! You need to Adult better!

To my 18 year old kid.. You're going to learn what Adulting is all about. It's time that this gravy train leaves the station and you start being independent. I'm not saying I won't be here to help, or guide you, but I am saying that you need to learn some respect and realize just how good you've had it all these years. I know you can achieve greatness and I'm pretty sure we are not going to get along for a bit once I tell you that I'm cutting off the $$ flow, but I have faith that you will figure it out and forgive me. Adulting means less spoiling by momma.

Seriously, enough rain already! People have enough trouble driving on a nice sunshiny day. Throw in some rain, wet streets and impatience and these Adults become jerks, inexperienced drivers and lots of bad things happen. Not to mention I have a lot of friends in Cali who are freaking a bit worrying about landslides, etc from all of the rain. Because I have to Adult, bunkering down in my house for several days without leaving at all is not really an option... Oh, and I'll be a crazy, frustrated person until it lets up. Oh.. and the dogs don't like to pee/poop in the rain!

Adulting means responsibilities, but it doesn't mean constant frustration and unhappiness. At least it shouldn't! take a moment out of your day and do something just for you. If that means locking yourself in the restroom for an extra 5 minutes just to breathe (don't inhale too deeply) and catch your bearings, do it. Or drive through Starbucks for that little pick me up. Climb into bed and cuddle for just a couple minutes to catch your breath. Do something for you, so you can continue to be an awesome adult. :)